By David Kessler, Founder & CEO, Starfish
Civil-rights attorney Bryan Stevenson, founder of the Equal Justice Initiative and author of Just Mercy, offers a deceptively simple prescription for changing the world: “We have to get proximate.” Not to the abstract idea of injustice, but to the people living inside it. We cannot understand, much less solve, a problem we have chosen to observe from a distance. Justice, in his view, requires nearness.
For nonprofits, that instruction has never been more urgent, not because the work has changed, but because the people funding it have.
Every nonprofit we meet and have worked with says something like this: “We want to build a movement.” But very few operate like one. Most operate like institutions, optimized for the donor base they inherited, calibrated to a generation visibly aging out of the center of gravity. The next generation is already here, and they do not give in the way the last one did. They give to causes, not organizations. They want to be inside the mission, not write a check from outside it. They are also adept at instantly spotting inauthenticity. And the Great Wealth Transfer, roughly $84 trillion moving from Boomers to their heirs over the next three decades, will decide which legacy nonprofits leap into the next era.
At Starfish, we have spent more than two decades helping organizations operationalize and maximize their identities, Fortune 100 companies, challenger brands, and nonprofits alike. The pattern is clearer in the nonprofit sector than in any other we serve. The organizations that have endured are the ones that got proximate, closest to the people they served, closest to the cultural conversation, and closest to a conviction worth defending. What has distinguished a movement from an institution at any point in American civic life has almost always been proximity.
Stevenson identifies four ingredients that make proximity real: getting near to the people you serve, changing the narrative, staying hopeful, and doing uncomfortable things. For legacy social-justice and human-rights organizations navigating this moment, the ADL, the American Jewish Committee, the NAACP, the ACLU, and their peers, those four ingredients describe, almost exactly, the path from institution to movement.
Every nonprofit operates inside a story larger than itself. The question is whether it has chosen to engage with that story, or keep telling the one it told ten years ago.
The current cultural narrative, for the generation inheriting civic life, is one of fatigue, fragmentation, and cautious resolve. Gen Z and Millennials have grown up watching political, religious, educational, and journalistic institutions lose credibility in real time. They are suspicious of polished appeals and skeptical of scale for its own sake. A 2025 study from Indiana University’s Lilly Family School of Philanthropy found that 64 percent of next-generation donors “support causes, not institutions.” They prefer campaigns they can see, share, and participate in now. Sixty-six percent of Millennials track outcomes for most nonprofits they support, compared with roughly 32 percent of Boomers. Accountability is not a reporting requirement for them. It is the price of admission.
Too many legacy nonprofits are still answering a question this generation isn’t asking. They lead with institutional age, historic roster, and organizational chart. Those cues signaled credibility to an older donor. To a younger one, they register as distance, proof that the organization is protecting a brand rather than engaging in a fight. The alternative is not to abandon institutional authority. It is to translate it into the cultural conversation younger donors inhabit, in language they recognize, with specificity they can test.
Consider what the ADL does well at its best: it does not simply condemn antisemitism from above. It documents it in real time, with specificity, on campuses, gaming platforms, AI systems, and in local school districts, and equips ordinary people to act where they live. Programs like BEACON and No Place for Hate, which reached more than 1.7 million students in 2025, are not campaigns. They are movement infrastructure. They put the organization in the hands of the advocate, at the scale of the neighborhood, in the language of the moment. That is what getting proximate to the narrative looks like.
Stevenson is unsentimental about hope. He calls hopelessness “the enemy of justice.” Not a feeling but an adversary. The people who change the world, he argues, are those who refuse to surrender their sense of possibility.
For social-justice nonprofits especially, this is the hardest principle to internalize, because the default register of the category is alarm. The house is on fire. Hate is rising. Rights are eroding. Democracy is fragile. All of it may be true. But alarm, repeated long enough, gets lost in the noise, and the generation most exhausted by the news cycle is the one nonprofits most urgently need to activate. Recent Hopelab research found that fewer than a quarter of young Americans rate their mental health as excellent, and roughly six in ten feel overwhelmed by the future. They are not asking nonprofits to fix this. But they are keenly attuned to which organizations honor the weight they carry and which pile on.
Hope does. Not the saccharine kind. The specific, credible kind. The hope that says: here is something we believe is possible, and here is what we are willing to do about it. Charity: Water built a generational donor base by showing each donor the GPS coordinates of the well they funded. Movember turned a men’s health conversation that had been invisible into a wearable movement. After 2016, the ACLU saw a surge in younger members because it offered not just outrage but action, a credible place to put time, energy, and money. These were acts of institutional hope, putting the organization’s own behavior on the line as proof.
Operationalized this way, hope is a remarkable competitive advantage. It is the emotional register AI cannot convincingly generate, because hope is not a pattern in the data. For organizations like ADL and AJC, whose daily work is confrontation with real, rising hatred, the temptation to lead with the threat is enormous and understandable. But younger donors will follow organizations that name the threat and offer a credible, participatory path forward. Fear may pay the bills of the current generation of donors, but hope recruits the next one.
The third Stevenson principle is the hardest for nonprofit clients because the pull of comfort within a legacy organization is stronger than within a corporation. Major donors have expectations. Board members have reputations to protect. Staff have been trained in a specific communications idiom. Category norms have calcified over decades of year-end appeals and black-tie galas.
The result is sameness. Open a piece of direct mail from any ten social-justice organizations, and you’ll find astonishing convergence: the same earnest photography, the same breathless subject lines, the same closing line that begins “Will you stand with us today?” It is a slow, surveyed, benchmarked drift toward a mean that cannot fail and, increasingly, cannot succeed.
Sameness is how a nonprofit becomes background noise. It’s how a legacy organization that once defined a category becomes a line on an estate plan rather than a cause someone joins.
Our job, as the agency, is not to make clients comfortable. It is to make them brave and rightfully and thoughtfully push them into territory where the message is sharp enough to be remembered, the point of view distinct enough to be argued with, and the experience designed to provoke rather than accommodate. In the age of AI, this matters more, not less. A majority of audiences can now identify AI-generated content, and studies find they respond with something closer to moral disgust than indifference when it ventures into emotional territory. For nonprofits, whose entire currency is emotional credibility, the midpoint is not just cheap. It is disqualifying. Movements are built by organizations whose leaders were willing to be uncomfortable on purpose, to say the thing in their own voice, at their own risk, with their own name on it.
All of the above is external-facing. But there is a proximity that precedes all of it, and in the nonprofit sector, it is the one most easily overlooked.
A nonprofit cannot credibly project externally a movement it is not living internally. It cannot speak to a cultural conversation that its staff and volunteers are not in. It cannot recruit younger donors into a mission that its own under-35 employees do not feel proximate to.
Culture is not the development department’s auxiliary problem. In a nonprofit, it is the product. Gallup has found that only 27 percent of employees across sectors believe their organization actually delivers on the promises it makes externally. That gap is not a culture gap. It is a brand gap, the distance between what the organization says about itself and what it is willing to live with.
For organizations like ADL, AJC, and their peers, internal proximity is the through-line between institution and movement. A staff close to the organization’s creed produces volunteers close to it, who produce donors close to it, who produce advocates in the communities where the work lands. Internal proximity is not a prelude to external proximity. It is the condition that makes movement-building possible at all.
Proximity is not a campaign, rebrand, or tagline. It is a practice, embedded over time, into how an organization decides what to do next.
Practically, for nonprofits, it means embedding your team in the lived reality of the people you serve, not their demographics. Auditing your narrative against the cultural conversation your next generation of donors inhabits and honestly asking whether you belong in it. Writing an organizational creed—a clear statement of beliefs, behaviors, and non-negotiables—and refusing to let efficiency pressures, AI shortcuts, or major-donor anxiety dilute it.
Choosing hope as a tonal commitment and earning the right to express it through behavior. Protecting the creative edge when the gala committee wants to negotiate it away. And asking three questions of every decision: Does this reinforce what our organization stands for? Does this experience feel unmistakably like us? Does this decision strengthen or dilute our promise to the communities we serve?
None of this happens by accident. It is the output of a disciplined brand operating system—one in which mission, narrative, experience, and behavior are connected by design rather than by hope. For nonprofits, coherence is not aesthetic. It is what makes a movement legible and joinable. Without it, proximity collapses into well-intentioned programs and grant-funded gestures. With it, proximity becomes the organization’s central instinct.
The nonprofits that define the next era of civic life will not be the ones with the biggest mailing lists or the most recognizable logos. They will be the ones closest to the people they serve, closest to the cultural moment, and closest to a conviction worth defending.
Stevenson’s line is worth borrowing for this sector. “You cannot be an effective advocate for anything,” he says, “from a distance.” The same is true of nonprofits, especially of legacy social-justice organizations working to stay relevant to a generation that did not inherit their parents’ institutional loyalties. You cannot understand a community you have not sat with. You cannot represent a culture you have not entered. You cannot lead a movement you manage from above.
The distance between institutions and the people they exist to serve has never been wider, mediated by algorithms, platforms, and synthetic content. That distance is precisely the problem—and precisely the opportunity.
Be more brave. Get proximate. Tell the truer story. Offer credible hope. Do the uncomfortable thing. The nonprofits that take this seriously will not just survive the generational handoff—they will define what comes after it.
Written by David Kessler, Founder and CEO of Starfish. Starfish is a NYC-based branding and creative communications agency that ignites powerful and sustainable customer connections through the unique discipline of brand experience.